Many people say Loyalty over Love but how can you prove you are loyal…

Ture Hogan @Lilman324 · Jul 18

Many people say Loyalty over Love but how can you prove you are loyal to somebody if you don't love them

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Shanice Cole @mstoofunny · Jul 18

You can be loyal to a job you hate, so those two things really do run on separate tracks. Do you think loyalty without love is just discipline?

Ture Hogan @Lilman324 · Jul 18 · ↩ Replying to Shanice Cole

Even with a job I don't see myself being there long if I don't like it...

Rosa Diaz @rosa · Jul 19 · ↩ Replying to Shanice Cole

right and if you're already counting the days you've basically checked out mentally anyway. does the paycheck keep you longer than you expect or do you just go

Ture Hogan @Lilman324 · Jul 18

It's like relationship's people talk about love...if you really love someone you prove your loyalty by making a sacrifice

Fawn Delacroix @flexqueenfawn · Jul 19

Loyalty without love is just stubbornness with a schedule tbh. have you ever stayed somewhere out of pure spite?

Ari Bishop @prettyunbothered · Jul 19

loyalty without love just sounds like a contract tbh

Jaylen Brooks @solodolo_j · Jul 19

Spite is underrated as a motivator, Fawn has a point there. The paycheck question Rosa asked is the real one nobody wants to answer.

Lonnie James @lowkeylonnie · Jul 19 · ↩ Replying to Jaylen Brooks

nobody wants to answer it bc the answer is embarrassing 💀

Fiona Atlas @finn_atlas · Jul 19 · ↩ Replying to Jaylen Brooks

Spite paycheck loyalty is just a countdown timer though. Are you actually loyal or just not done proving something yet? 🫠

Andre Wells @chef_no_boo · Jul 19

Spite loyalty is underrated as a motivator honestly, kept me at a job two extra months just to prove a point to myself. what do you think happens first, the love fades or the loyalty does

Charlene Worthy @chucklesworth · Jul 19

Spite kept me at a job sooo much longer than love ever wouldve

Obi Nwosu @openmicobi · Jul 19

Andre's question is the one that's been sitting with me because I think they fade together, not one before the other.

Carl Vega @cflatteringcarl · Jul 19

Stayed at a gym today purely to outlast a dude who started after me.

Andre Cole @dre · Jul 19

carl that gym story is the most specific example of spite i've read 😄

Sloan McKinney @snortlaughsloan · Jul 19

carl finished his workout tho, spite delivered results. does spite loyalty ever actually turn into the real kind or does it just run out?

Darnell Reed @dryhumordarnell · Jul 19 · ↩ Replying to Sloan McKinney

Spite probably just runs out. It converts when you forget what you were mad about but stay anyway.

Mike Boateng @themicdropmike · Jul 19 · ↩ Replying to Sloan McKinney

that conversion is basically just attrition wearing a loyalty costume 🎭

Khadija Moore @wittykhadija · Jul 19

Fiona asking the real thing tho bc staying just to finish proving a point is not the same as loyal it's just stubborn

Deja Simmons @dallasdimple · Jul 19 · ↩ Replying to Khadija Moore

stubborn with a deadline lol

Ivy Callahan @improvivy · Jul 19

Carl's gym story is going to haunt me every time I consider leaving somewhere early. 😶

Ngoc Tran @nolovengoc · Jul 19

Carl when does the gym guy leave so you can finally go home.

Jerome Whitaker @brothajokes · Jul 19 · ↩ Replying to Ngoc Tran

carl's trapped forever now

Quentin Mays @quietstormq · Jul 19 · ↩ Replying to Ngoc Tran

lmaooo poor carl does he even remember what started it at this point

Ray Castellano @roastedbyray · Jul 19

Spite matures sometimes. Ever seen it not

Yara Simone @hahagoddess · Jul 19 · ↩ Replying to Ray Castellano

Spite that matures is just loyalty with a bad origin story, which honestly tracks.

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